You ask, Law of Attraction answers: What am I attracting when I feel jealous?
Christy writes, “It doesn’t happen often, but lately I’ve been overcome with flashes of jeaousy- from a good friends new car, to my husband’s glamorous business trip and even a sales assistant’s perfect makeup! What am I attracting with jealousy?”
Jealousy holds so many lessons. It is an uncomfortable emotion, which means that our higher self is not happy with what ego is thinking. When we feel any “negative emotion”, whatever action we take under it’s influence will not have the magical effect action taken from a place of love or appreciation will.
Remember Abraham-Hicks emotional guidance scale? As we move up the scale our positive attraction becomes greater!
The Emotional Guidance Scale
1. Joy/Appreciation/Empowered/Freedom/Love 2. Passion 3. Enthusiasm/Eagerness/Happiness 4. Positive Expectation/Belief 5. Optimism 6. Hopefulness 7. Contentment 8. Boredom 9. Pessimism 10. Frustration/Irritation/Impatience 11. Overwhelment 12. Disappointment 13. Doubt 14. Worry 15. Blame 16. Discouragement 17. Anger 18. Revenge 19. Hatred/Rage 20. Jealousy 21. Insecurity/Guilt/Unworthiness 22. Fear/Grief/Depression/Despair/Powerlessness
So moving from Jealousy into Anger, or Blame, for instance (should be quite easy, not such a big “jump”) is an improvement- however you get there, Christy!
(And remember our feelings are just a result of the thoughts we are choosing to focus on. Change your thoughts, change your emotion!)
From Blame, where blame thinks: “If only my husband hadn’t bought a new motorbike, I could be driving a new car too!”
you may find yourself able to jump up into Frustration/Impatience:
“When are all the results of working so hard going to show up for me? I’m so tired of trying to make it happen. When will I finally get my rewards?”
and maybe even… into Hope…
“I have been doing the right things, I just know this is going to work out for me and someday soon I’ll have more cash to splash…”
Once you are in the top 10 emotions, you are positively attracting and you’ll find the magic begins to show up once more.
Quick Angel notes on Jealousy….
- Jealousy shows us what we believe we should have for ourselves already. It’s a GREAT opportunity, dear one, to realise what it is we truly desire, and make a plan on how to get it.
- Jealousy can be a great short-cut to connection and appreciation- two of the highest positive emotions of all!
a. Its shortcut to connection: Sharing your jealousy with the person you are jealous of relieves you and is a compliment to them. It’s a secret shared and opens the door to a beautiful new level of friendship. Try it, if you haven’t already! You will be amazed.
b. Its shortcut to appreciation: Our conscience tugs at us when we feel jealous, a reminder of all the good we do possess, which can only add to the irritation, I know… but making a list of our blessings and really getting into feeling them is such a powerful transformational activity at this time. We promise…..